Try speed shooters who is a sponsor, I believe they have the rods.
If you aren't reloading light loads for competition stick to the stock spring and rod imo. It is cheaper and your money will be better spent on ammo. Keep away from buffers as they usually seem to make more trouble than they are worth.
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