101Combat Vet said:
[quote name='Grimwulff']I've lost 3 people in the last year and a half, so I feel the pain and i'm really sorry to hear it... at least let her known that people do care out there... hope everything is ok and i'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Be there for them and take care of yours
Dealing with a loss has become a kind of profession for me lately I hate to make it sound like that. during ft campbell's first deployment to Iraq I stayed back and did Casualty operations for division, 8 months b4 I deployed to Iraq my father passed and during the deployment out of apprx 900 we lost 21 guys 7 of them good friends of mine.. So that is why I say that it always hurts I have just grown numb to the pain... thanks for your kind words grimwulff[/quote]
Really sorry to hear about that to... hopefully everything comes out ok. What I always tell my friends when they're going through the possibility of loss and/or are going through loss is that the memory of one's life is more important served with love and affection then with saddness. The depths of sorrow that the loss of a loved one causes is deep, but the never ending love and affection and memories of who they were and how they lived their life should be their focus, because saddnes only begets itself. Just remember the good times, because no matter what happens, at least you will have your memories of them, that is the true form of immortality.
